If you are the type of gentleman I desire and respect, you might already know many of the basic guidelines for good etiquette  because they are common sense, and they come as a given. But this might clarify a few things that can often be overlooked. And remember, the more gentlemanly you are, the easier it is for me to create a sensual, memorable encounter. 


     If by chance you have never booked a high class companion before, then it is important that you read this.



Etiquette ...and ​basic knowledge about upscale companions

Katherine

Nothing inferred or implied within these pages or through any correspondence or telephone conversation is to be taken as an inducement for payment for anything other than time and companionship.

If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.

-Katherine Hepburn


   Hiring a companion, whatever the level, is the same as hiring any other professional, like a doctor, lawyer, or accountant. You pay them money for a service. It doesn’t matter what the service is: if you’re nice to the professional, you generally get a better result than if you aren’t. Treat adult entertainers the same way you treat other professionals. And like other professionals, these women will treat you as a valued client, and may even become ‘friends’ on a business level. They look forward to seeing you again, the same way any other professional likes to see their good clients.
   High class companions make a living at their jobs just like women who have other jobs. So yes, they are partly doing it for the money. But that’s just their occupation, which most people choose because they enjoy it. When you hire a lawyer to represent you he or she is doing it indeed for the money, but your lawyer probably likes to argue, and enjoys the work.  When you hire an accountant, the person no doubt enjoys working with numbers and likes to do accounting, but if you weren't paying them to do your taxes, they certainly wouldn't be doing it. It’s the same thing. Your lawyer may be your friend, and your accountant may enjoy working for you because you’re a good client. The same kind of relationship can be established with your companion; If you become a repeat client, you will get to know each other and know what you like to do to, and it will be more enjoyable. 

corresponding :
     Check her details and rates before contacting -- Don’t contact her unless you are genuinely interested, (and I ask that you don't call, but rather text me or send me an email please.)  
      Be respectful and do not attempt to ask about any illegal activities --  An Escort is not a prostitute and therefore does not sell sex to their clients. Even though people often make this simple mistake the difference between the two must be stressed. An Escort simply sells the time they spend with their clients and does not charge them for sexual acts. However, what happens while accompanied by an escort is entirely between two or more consenting adults who share similar likes and interests. 

      You need to understand that I am charging you simply for my time, the length or amount of time having live interaction with you, and not for any acts or behaviors, as that would be illegal.

I should also point out  that my "live interaction" includes talking on the phone.  It requires my time to  be given exclusively to a client as well.  So it will also be time that I charge for, as it is not essential for communication.  (If this is inconvenient to you, I sincerely apologize; but I do have several important reasons, for which I hope you will be able to empathize,  as I explain on my "Answers" page in the last question.)

     Don’t ask for pictures – escorts get many calls from people who are not serious about booking appointments, but are looking for material for their ‘spank bank’. If you ask for naked pictures, you’re not going to be taken seriously, and you’re not going to get them. You can see my photos on my "images" page.

screening :
    Many first time hobbyists aren’t aware of the communication protocols that escorts go through. Some will ask you for your name and other identification information such as your place of employment, possibly your driver’s license number.  This is completely normal. Answer honestly and you won’t have any problems. This information is only used to check and make sure you’re not posing as someone else. Keep any emails or texts respectful and answer any questions. Don’t worry, she will be discreet, she just wants to get to know you better. In reality, you should worry about the companion who doesn't ask for verification; if she’s not asking you a thousand questions about yourself, then there might be something up. A true escort will always want to know a lot about you in order to protect herself. 

payment :
   Have the payment ready in cash, and counted. Make sure the amount is correct place it on the counter or dresser or someplace where she can see it, before she arrives. 
   Don't haggle over charges… if her rates are too high for you, then there is nothing wrong with saying that the rate is more than what you want to spend, and move on. Trying to negotiate fees will result in less polite treatment, and not being taken seriously, or even being black-listed.  Besides, it would be unfair for me to charge someone a different rate than everyone else pays just because they were able to negotiate better.   


cleanliness :​​
   You can be sure that she will be groomed, so please do the same for her.  Before the booking have a shower – paying particular attention to washing your private parts – and clean your teeth. The chances of a woman being willing participant in erotic games with you is directly proportional to your level of personal hygiene.
   Have a shave or at least a trim. Not many ladies class a “sanding-down” by a five o’clock shadow as foreplay, but I am talking about more than just facial hair.  You don't want me to have a long fluffy bush, do you? Well, I have the same point of view.

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behavior :
    Don't feel like you need to blow her mind with your performance. While considerate, and very sweet, she is there for you. Do not hold back at the beginning because you want to last for her.  This often ends in not being able to finish at all, which nobody wants. You can take care of her after if you enjoy that, but no pressure here either.

    Be respectful of her boundaries.  If you want a service that she does not provide don't try to get it!  "No" actually does mean no with a provider; because she isn't going to hold out or play hard to get. And you don't want to ruin the mood.

    Expect that protection will be used; even with a  full 'girlfriend experience’ type of service. Because GFE does not include any kind of unsafe behavior.  And never ask to go without protection as it certainly will result in an immediate termination of the booking without refund.​


     Your provider is doing a service for you; and, just as with all service-industries, it is good to tip your service provider. No one care if it's $2 or $200, tips are appreciated. Unless she was terrible. Tipping lets the woman know that you liked her and that you appreciate her time and effort. This is especially important if you want to see the escort again. If you went for a twofer, then tip extra well!